Women compete with each other worse than we dudes ever will. That’s no secret, just get two of them alone and put something they both want in there with them. While it may not always end up in a cat-fight, it’s going to end up with bad blood. Also, women tend to want what other women value. This is true for everything, from shoes to boyfriends. You can use this simple fact to leverage your own girlfriend, just keep the following things in mind.
Make Yourself Look Popular With Ladies
If you have female friends, it’s a good time to suddenly hang out with them more. Now is the time to make yourself some if you don’t have a lot on deck. Sometimes women take us for granted and don’t give us the level of attention we want. The way to make her realize that you could be gone at any minute is to give her reason to worry.
If she’s being too distant, you can always tell your girl that ″Sorry, I made plans with Joan tonight, didn’t hear from you″. You don’t have to tell her that Joan’s married or was your babysitter back in the day. The fact that you’re out with another female will be enough to get her gears grinding.
Mention Female Friends in Conversations
Once you’ve made some good female friends you should name drop them on a regular basis. ″I was talking to Karen today and-″ or ″Oh! Let me show you this link Joy sent me″ are good ways to subtly hint that you’ve got women who talk to you regularly. She’ll wonder if that’s all that they’re sharing. Keep comments about how your friends look out of it, but if one of your friend is a dancer or a model, you definitely want your girlfriend to know about it. You need to be careful with this because if you name drop too much she will go from the level of wanting to do something extra to keep you and unloading on you for being a cheater.
Let Her Answer Your Phone When Female Friends Call
Last but not least, you should leave your phone out. We know, it sounds really strange, but if you’ve got women who call your phone, having her answer it will definitely get her mind wandering. Some women are so defensive that they will immediately go on the attack. A pointed ″Who the hell is this?″ will be enough to start an argument between your girl and your friend. She won’t believe your friend for a moment and your friend will wonder why you’re dating a bitch. Wait a few minutes then you can sweep in and explain the situation. Make sure that you tell her how hurt you are that she doesn’t trust you.
Yeah, it’s a bit underhanded to use jealousy as a weapon, but women make it easy. Use that natural competitive streak they all have to your advantage. Make sure to not overdo it, however, because once your girlfriend brands you a cheater, nothing on earth will change her mind.