This girl is totally into you. Her friends tell you she is, she’s even said she is. She’s still dodging your questions to date steadily and blowing you off when you call. Acting like you don’t care has only made her care less. Acting like you’re a hot item hasn’t even made a dent in her attitude. You don’t want to act like you’re desperate for attention, but you also don’t want to let this one go. Here are some tactics to get the chick of your dreams to reciprocate.
1) Don’t Stress
If she thinks she’s making you sweat, she will string you along. Don’t let her see you stress about what she’s doing and isn’t doing. Women like feeling like they are running the dating show. Hell, a lot of times, they do. You need to act like you’re not pressed about her. Relax, maybe go on some other dates and let her see that when she rebuffs you that she’s not ruining your day. It’ll make her want your attention more as well, if she sees you with another woman.
2) Ask Her Directly
If you’re tired of waiting, ask her what she wants. Tell her that you feel like there’s a mutual attraction and find out why she’s not closing the distance. You don’t want to make her feel like she’s being interrogated, but you don’t want to make her feel like you don’t care. Being direct without acting aggressive, could be hard. The best thing to do is wait for a chance when you’re alone and say something like ″so, am I reading this wrong, or do we like each other?″. If she’s evasive, just shrug and say ″well, don’t expect me to wait around forever″ and leave it at that.
3) Honesty is the Best Policy
Being honest with a girl is not something that always works. But if you’re serious about making this one the full time babe then you need to be honest. If you want this to be a real relationship, tell her so. You aren’t stressing yourself for a one night stand or a chick that you’re going to cheat on. So tell her that you’re into her. Basically you need to tell her, point blank that you really would like to try a relationship, and you’ll give her a week or two to mull it over. If she doesn’t call you, then you’ll just let it drop. You don’t want to be a creep, but you also don’t want to be someone’s puppy dog. Let her make that final move.
When you are serious about a girl you need to be honest with her. However, don’t sacrifice your dignity; you’re a man, not a little boy. Telling her how it is isn’t going to do anything but make her understand how you feel about her. However, if she’s not going to reciprocate, you need to let it drop and walk away. No girl is worth your dignity.