Meeting the Ladies
Let’s be real: meeting women is hard. You might be having a worse time than usual lately. Maybe you just don’t have time to go out, maybe you’re frustrated or maybe you see the same chicks over and over again. Whatever it is, you’re having trouble, and it sucks. But what can you do?
Singles Online Dating Sites
There are hundreds of dating sites. It can be hard to know which ones are worth your time. Fortunately, other sites have dealt with that issue by testing them and then posting reviews. It’s worth your while to read up on them. Don’t bother with the reviews and success stories on the dating sites themselves; they’re totally biased. Instead, talk to your bros, read the reviews, and then figure out a profile that makes you look good and can get you hooked up. You might want to talk to a girl you know just to make sure it’ll work, but don’t do it if you’re falsifying the whole thing. She’ll call you out and make it impossible for you to meet anyone, even in person.
The Bar Scene
Try hitting a new bar. Bring a wingman with you; he can help you out and maybe get laid himself if the chick you pick up has a friend. Just make sure he wants you to get laid too; you don’t want someone who’s desperate enough to swoop in when you leave to buy drinks. Take the time to make yourself look good. Shower, get your hair looking however you want, shave, dress decently—not slumming it, but not a suit, either—and use some cologne. Just a little, and don’t use Axe or one of the other teen body spray things that repel women. Make sure you have cash for drinks and tips; you might need to stop by the ATM. Some places don’t like cards, and you’ll look like an idiot if you can’t pay for a beer.
Which is Better?
What works better depends on you. If your mere presence scares women off, definitely go for the dating sites. While you wait for email, figure out why women have the impression that you’re a serial killer and do something to fix that, like cutting your hair and getting rid of your neck beard. If you can actually talk to women then try a bar. Your wingman can help you figure out why you strike out even after a conversation with a woman. Maybe you should cut the football talk when you’re just meeting her. Whichever way you go, lower your standards. It’s pretty unlikely that you’ll get a blonde babe with a fantastic ass and great boobs. You need to be realistic. Real life doesn’t work like “The King of Queens”. No hot woman’s going to lower her standard to take care of your every need. If she makes breakfast the next day, count it as a win and set up an actual date.