You scored a home run in the babe department. Now that you’ve had a few dates with her, you want to go in and really blow her away. Keeping things exciting is the way to keep a fun girl interested. Try out some of our suggestions below to keep the excitement and interest going.
Try Something New
New to both of you, not just something you haven’t tried before. Maybe now is the chance to go sky diving or do something you’ve always wanted to. By starting something new with your date that neither of you have ever done, you’re making an association. She’ll remember that first time she jumped out of a plane and remember that you were the dude who took her there. If you’re not the sort to take a flying leap, even trying a new restaurant for both of you can be good. The trick is to make something totally new happen, that way she will associate you with new and interesting experiences.
Spontaneous (But Not too Much)
Showing up at her house with flowers and tickets to Italy sounds really romantic. However, you can’t just surprise people like that and expect them to be grateful. If she’s got pets or responsibilities that need handled, you can’t expect her to drop everything and run away with you. However, you can always secretly make arrangements to board the dogs and have a co-worker take up that weekend shift for her. You have to pay attention to your lady. Some of them love being swept off their feet for a surprise weekend away, some would balk. However, many would love if you call and say ″Tomorrow night I have a surprise planned, pack a bag″. It gives her time to spruce up and get her affairs in order.
Get a Room
Splurge for that hot tub room at a nice hotel, even if you both live in the same city. Hotels are fun because you don’t have to worry about cleaning anything on your way out, everything is nice and provided for you. The trick to the hotel room vacation is to first get some items together. If she’s hinted at liking anything that you haven’t tried, think of it. Now don’t take a soft core chick all the way to kink, but if she’s mentioned liking the idea of handcuffs or blindfolds, a hotel room is a good place to try that out. Don’t forget to pack yourself a few drinks and some food; you’re bound to get hungry.
Variety really is the spice of life. The key to keeping things interesting is balance. You want to try new things, but not overwhelm her. If you are too spontaneous then you seem frazzled, out of control, and flighty. None of those things are what a woman wants in a man. Give her time to get used to one new thing before you move onto something else. Most importantly, don’t forget to listen to what she likes so you can do repeat performances.