Playing hard to get is not as easy as it may seem. There’s a fine line between alluringly busy and just too hardnosed as far as chicks are concerned. To get a babe to be head over heels for you, you have to make her think that you’re a hot commodity. By showing her that you’re a busy man you are proving that you’re not just some idiot waiting on her beck and call. How do you make yourself seem unavailable and yet not too much like you’re blowing her off? Well that balance can be reached by following these easy steps.
Don’t Pick up the First Call
We aren’t talking about that stupid three day rule, either. Just, don’t pick up the moment that she calls the first time. When a girl calls you the first time, let it go to voice mail. Then wait a few hours and call her back. Say ″Hey, sorry I missed your call, I wasn’t by the phone″ or something similar. Don’t lie and say you were at the gym if you were playing a video game, but you don’t have to say you were just sitting around. She will be happy you called her back as long as you don’t wait more than a few days. Don’t leave her hanging for more than about 24 hours. Anymore than that and you look like a jackass.
Don’t Accept the First Date
We don’t mean to turn her down. What you want to do is say ″Oh, I can’t on that day, what about this day? ″ Try to schedule things at least a few days in advance when you start dating a girl. You want to appear like you have a busy schedule and that you like this chick so much you are making room for her in it. If that means you have to go a week or two without seeing her, so be it. You can work her in more if you really like the girl, but the basic idea is to make yourself seem important.
Don’t be a Jerk
While you want to appear busy, you really don’t want to seem like you feel you’re doing her a huge favor by going out with her. The last thing you want to come off as is full of yourself. When you do call her back apologize for taking whatever amount of time to do so and judge her reaction. There is a huge difference between appearing busy and appearing like you don’t care. Remember when you talk to the girl to sound genuinely happy to hear from her. If you legitimately want to date this girl, let her know.
If she’s tired of being put on hold, she’ll tell you. Then you are in. She’s going to want more of your time because your time is obviously valuable. Women are not immune to supply and demand. If your time is in shorter supply, or seems to be in shorter supply, she’ll want more.