Some of the sexiest things that you can do to your lady are some of the easiest to overlook. You don’t want to have to seem like you’re inept, but sometimes asking questions can be the gateway to toe curling experiences. To save you the trouble, we got together a question and answer session on lady sexuality. We sat down with a panel of hotties to discuss what men have done for them that made them lose their minds. When we were done we found out that there were 5 things that each and every one of them agreed on.
Shoulders are Important
Women keep a lot of tension on their shoulders, stress from work, life and even their bra can leave her in knots. Taking the time to give her shoulders massage is almost guaranteed to make any woman melt. ″I love it when my boyfriend is giving me a really hard massage then leans in and kisses my shoulders″ Samantha stated. Most of the women we’ve talked with agree. The key here is to make sure you don’t rub her shoulders too hard or too softly. The difference between kissing her and the pressure is what gets her going.
Let Her Take Control
″Sometimes I just want to tie him to the bed and drive″ is a common theme with the chicks we talked to. However, she may be afraid to ask because she doesn’t want to seem like she’s making you insecure or uncomfortable. What these women didn’t know is that if they showed up with handcuffs we’d be totally down. They have this idea that all men like to be in control all the time. The best way to breech the topic is to let her be on top. Tell her what you like when she’s there and see how it goes.
Don’t think that asking questions makes you sound like you don’t know what you’re doing. Just say ″I’ve thought about trying this, do you want to?″ Offer her suggestions playfully and then get her opinion. You never know if she’s into something hard core unless you ask. The key to asking is to frame it as a suggestion or something you were offhandedly thinking about. As long as she feels comfortable with you, she will probably be open to trying a lot of things. Also assure her that if she doesn’t like it, you’ll stop.
Don’t be Afraid of Toys
The vibrator is not trying to steal your girlfriend. We had the same inclination as most dudes at first; it looked too much like a dick. Then we figured out that there are a ton of toy options out there. Toys can be really amazing when you’re using them right. Check out your local adult stores or conventions with your lady and see if anything catches your eye. A finger or a bullet vibe during doggy style is guaranteed to make her eyes roll back in her head and have her hoarse in the morning.
Make Sure She’s Satisfied
Finishing early, so to speak, is a man’s worst nightmare. If you do, don’t stop there. The number one complaint that we heard in our discussion was that when their men were done they just were done. In fact, about 70% of the chicks we talked, admitted to finishing up by themselves either in the bathroom or while their partner were asleep. Whatever you do, make sure that your lady sees fireworks. As long as she gets a big O out of it, she won’t care what happened earlier, trust us.