In movies the mysterious detective with the dark coat and tortured past always gets the girl, even if she didn’t like him much at first. You’ve noticed that women seem to always fall for him because they don’t really know a lot about him. Why is it that women like not knowing about their men? We were curious and collected some ladies to give us some answers. Here’s what they came up with.
There are More Possibilities
Maintaining that air of mystery means that a lady has no idea what you are going to do next. Keeping her on her toes and opening her up to new possibilities means that you’re adventurous and fun. She’ll want to do things with you mostly for the adventure. When you are selecting new places to go you can drop little tidbits about yourself. She will enjoy asking you questions and trying to tease things out of you. For her, the slow discovery is a sexy game.
Less to Hate
No news is good news. And no information is about the same way. If you keep up an air of mystery then she has less of you to dislike. You’ve chosen to only show this girl thing that she will enjoy and create an image around it. Because you are playing your cards close to the chest she doesn’t know everything about you. The only bad news here is that if she becomes a long time steady girlfriend and moves in, you’re going to bombard her with all of those things your mysterious air was hiding.
They Can Fill in the Blanks
Women have extremely active imaginations. They’re able to construct vivid fantasies with very little details. This means that the more they can guess about you the more they can put you into their fantasies. They’ll be able to build you up as something highly desirable and that will become their reality. When a woman fills in the blanks of what you tell her, she’s going to fill it with things that she wants to see. This pays off big time for you because you literally get something for nothing.
Other Women Want You
Women compete with each other for just about everything. That includes men. What’s great about having an air of mystery is that if one woman starts to play up to it and want you other ones will too. This then snowballs, more women want you, so you become more desirable, so, you guessed it, more women want you. It isn’t thanks to the mystery itself, more to the fact that women will try to snake anything if other women want it.
All in all, it’s not your air of mystery that does anything for a chick. It’s what she does with the missing information. Use it to your advantage when you start dating and try to keep yourself slightly detached. When she starts filling in the blanks on her own, you’ll become the man of her dreams.