Women equate boring men to men that don’t care about them. If you’re boring then she is going to feel like you don’t appreciate her and she doesn’t matter. Women equate wanting to try new things with excitement and interest. In light of this, is it really any wonder why women hate boring men? If they wanted to sit at home and watch TV they could do that on their own. Every man doesn’t need to be a man of mystery and wonder. What a woman wants is someone who is willing to try new things. Many long term relationships fizz out because one of you felt like things had gotten ″stale″. Make yourself more interesting by following these five tips.
1) If You Don’t Like Something She Likes, Say So
Instead of shooting her down every time she asks for sushi by saying ″I just can’t eat that everyday″ tell her ″I don’t like that″. Be honest and upfront with your girl when you’re discussing places to eat. This is particularly true if it’s something she asks for a lot that you rarely do because ″I can’t eat that every day″. Be firm and honest with her. Just say you don’t like it. That way she will stop asking and you won’t feel like you’re being badgered. If you constantly tell her ‘no’ with a brush off that isn’t something concrete then she will feel like you never want to try anything and are thus boring.
2) Don’t Only Eat the Same Thing
Dates out to eat are the most common thing that couples do together. There’s nothing wrong with being a meat and potatoes kind of guy, but if that’s all you eat then she is going to think you are boring even if it’s not your thing, try being adventurous every once and a while. Women tend to like a wider range of food than we do and they equate that with interest and fun. If you really like the chick, at least try the Thai cuisine.
3) Rituals are Fine But…
Having a routine isn’t being boring. If you and your friends always go out for happy hour on Tuesday, that’s not boring. Having a Sunday ritual is also not boring. The problem is that if you only live your life by rituals then you’re going to become predictable and dull. No one wants to feel like they are living in Groundhog Day, if you start to feel like it is getting that way, think of something to switch it up. Pay attention to what is going on in your city and suggest going out to do an event. Even if it’s not your thing at least you got out of the house.
4) Get Off the Computer
Stop playing your PS3 like it’s a part-time job. She will start to feel neglected and you don’t want her panties to turn into a rare drop, do you? If women see you just playing around all day they are going to start going out without you. Your lady needs stimulation and seriously, watching you gaming isn’t one of them. Unless she is a gamer herself, that’s just not going to work. If she is a gamer, share the controller from time to time, she’ll love you for it.
5) Small Surprises
Little gifts are a great way to add a little excitement to a girl’s day. Don’t make these elaborate or difficult gifts either. Just a simple thing like flowers on the table when she gets home or picking up her favorite food from the store will make her happy. By doing small things for her every once in a while; you will prove that you are still interested in her while keeping her interested at the same time.