Don’t cry censorship. As a dude trying to get with a sexy lady of substance, you’re going to need to dial it back. Fair warning, this article is aggressive and has curse words in it. We collected four hateful, angry and ignorant words that will make women think less of you. If you’re looking to get a date, keep these out of your vocabulary.
Yes, we went there right away to get it over with. There’s really never a reason to be this rude to someone. If you’re with a woman and she overhears you use this word, she is immediately going to be nervous around you. This word is charged and many women who hear it say that they are afraid of the speaker being violent. No woman is going to want to talk to or be around a guy that scares her.
That’s right up there. Women aren’t keen on being called bitches; in fact, this word gets their shields up almost as quickly as the other one above. The problem is that this word is overused and has ended up meaning ″woman that disagrees with me″ to many people. Women don’t care if you find them agreeable all the time. Men that use this word regularly come off as whiny and easily intimidated by women. She doesn’t want to be around someone who gets offended the moment she opens her mouth.
This one is usually on deck for a lot of loser dudes/bros who can’t get a date. And then they wonder why. This isn’t a word that you should be using regularly. Men do come off as judgmental. If a woman hears you call another one a slut and she has had sexual partners in the past (even if it’s just one or two) she will be hesitant to go out with you because she fears that you will judge her. Women also say that men who say this come off as entitled and bratty and more like teenagers than men that they want to go out with.
IT IS NOT FUNNY. Okay? We’ll say it. Rape jokes make most women very uncomfortable. Like the use of the word ‘cunt’, it makes the speaker seem violent. One of the women we talked to said ″well if he thinks it’s funny why does he think I’d ever want to be alone with him?″ And why would she? If a chick kept talking about punching guys in the balls and laughing or saying ″it’s not really punching him in the balls if he’s asleep″ you’d be hesitant, wouldn’t you?
There you have it; if these words are in your everyday vocabulary and you have trouble keeping a lady around, this may be part of it. Another good rule of thumb is to listen. If a woman tells you to not use a certain word, then don’t use it. It’s not like it’s hurting you to change your speech up a bit. If you don’t know other words, dude, we feel sorry for you there’s hundreds of thousands of them in the English language.