Keep Her Coming Back: Tactics For Turning a First Date Into a Steady Girlfriend
So you’re ready to delete most of the numbers in your dating book and pick up a steady lady. This starts with a first date. There are simple steps to follow to try to net that perfect lady. Once you’ve met her and you are pretty sure there is something you are going to need to dedicate the most time to her instead of dividing your efforts. This may mean stopping contact with most of the other ladies you’re talking to.
You don’t want to totally cut ties with everyone, especially if you’re just going on a hunch. You’re not the only one who dictates if you’re going to make a relationship a steady thing. If she ends up not being as into you as you are to her and you burnt all your bridges then you’re back at square one.
You like the chick you met.
She’s hot, she’s funny, and she likes the same bad shows you do. This chick is also sweet and thoughtful, she seems to be the total package. You know almost immediately upon talking to her in person that you need to knock this date out of the park and make her a steady girlfriend. The first thing that you need to do is pay attention to her. Take note of what she’s doing and the things that she likes. Being attentive is important right now.
Here’s 3 things you can do in the week following your first date that will have her thinking about you constantly.
Be attentive. This is the most important way to get out of the friend zone. You want to ask if you can get her anything else, or ask what she likes. Offer to open doors for her and walk her to her car. She’s the real deal and you want her to feel safe and comfortable with you.
Remember what she says. Store away things that she says that she likes and find ways to provide those on the next date. For example, if she says she really likes a certain kind of cupcake then on your next date, provided it’s not a huge undertaking, it would be a good idea to show up with one.
Open up.Trust is a two way street. Make sure that you are also opening up about what you expect and want yourself. Give her chances to show that she’s into you as well. Relationships are a two way street.